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Monday, 9 April 2018

10 Things That Can Make Your Partner Get Tired Of You







Sometimes people do things without having a clue that it’s annoys the partner in their lives. Your partner could get tired without showing; it just keeps building until they get tired of that relationship.
Most people are careless about their partners, especially men; some partners take so many things for granted; that is why there is this popular saying “you don’t know what you have until you lose it”.
The next 10 things that I’d list would definitely make that man or woman tired of you. You got have to be careful; it’s easy to lose a good person, the hard part is getting them back; you might not get that chance.
1. INSINCERITY
 Insincerity is a major turn off and is a big relationship killer. It kills the trust your lady has for you. So many people are fond of this act and they just don’t care; they are insincere about everything they do and they just think it is normal, that their partner probably wouldn’t care. Some people are patient kind really; they hold a thing up till they can’t anymore and by then it’s already too late. So one advice for you fellas, keep your acts right, that man or woman isn’t a wood, they notice everything but keeps quiet for a reason.
2. WHEN YOU DON'T LISTEN
Some people, especially men, enter a relationship with a lady and act like they are male chauvinist; they act like they are Generals in the military and it’s either their word or their words. They don’t listen to their lady or ask for her opinion and still want to keep her; they just need that obedient subordinate to control. Sorry man, you can’t eat your cake and have it; your relationship is not a military training ground. She deserves your respect, give it to her or risk losing her. Everyone hates not being listened to; it’s more like you don’t value them.
3. LACK OF TRUST
If you don’t have complete trust in your partner then what are you guys even doing together? It’s better not to be with them at all than be with them and still don’t trust them. Most people feed on the trust their partners have for them but when there is no trust then you are completely making them feel bad. Some people don’t naturally have trust for a woman and it’s not a good thing. Trust is essential to keeping them in love with you always.
4. WHEN YOU DON'T CARE
Some people are in relationships for relationship sake. They don’t show care to their partners, they act anyhow and treat their partners anyhow. Maybe they do this with the expectation that they just can’t do without them and wouldn’t leave. Like I said earlier, some people are a patient bunch; they wait and wait to see if there would be any improvement and then they get fed up and leave. You need to show her care always, never get tired of telling them how much you love them, never chill on communication; it keeps the fire burning and the moment the fire stops burning in that relationship, they get tired and then decides it’s all over. Never let it reach this stage except you don’t love them.
5. CHEATING
Nothing can make a man or woman tired than a cheating partner. A cheating partner is every man or woman's nightmare. Most people cheat and that’s a fact. It really isn’t fair to start a relationship with someone, they agrees to be yours and then all you could do is cheat on them. It’s an unfair thing to do; to me, it’s wickedness. If you want them for a fling,  ask them for a fling, if you need something real then be real; cheating isn’t a sign of realness. No one love to share their partner with anyone, no matter what. Cheating on them would only hurt them and they would definitely get tired. People react differently when their partner cheats; some get hurt and just leave, others act so violent to either their partner or the person he or she is cheating with or both, some curse and swear, others decide to stop dating. The summary is that they get hurt and tired and before you know it they will generalize it; that all men and women cheat. There good men and woman out there, they are rare, not evry man and woman cheats.

6. LACK OF ATTENTION

7. LACK OF UNDERSTANDING

8. LACK OF TOLERANCE

9. SELFISH BEHAVIOURS 


10. NEGLIGENCE
Neglecting your partner is not fair. If your relationship is a serious one, carry them along. There is nothing as beautiful as togertherness, oneness and transparency in a relationship
These 10 listed things would only kill your relationship and it has made countless people lose their relationships. Losing a good man or woman is the worst mistake anyone can make; they are rare to find and a priceless gem.
Be a gentleman, be a gentle lady; make your partner happy, save your relationship.



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